As lockdown measures are gradually lifted, many will be breathing a sigh of relief at having successfully juggled work
and client commitments with the rising demands of young children. Annabel Bosman, MD and head of relationship management at RBC Wealth Management, writes
My day job is to lead RBC Wealth Management International’s relationship management efforts in the British Isles, but my toughest challenge right now is educating and entertaining my new junior co-workers.
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While my children’s school has done a great job at setting up daily tasks and learning activities, there is only so much ‘teaching’ they can take from me without World War III breaking out. So instead of rigidly sticking to the school curriculum each day, I have taken the opportunity to educate my young children about a topic that is often not discussed enough in school: money.
Why now?
What I do for a living has become a central discussion in our co-working space – also known as the dining table. I have found that investment concepts can be grasped quite well by young children, and this has led to some interesting conversations about which businesses are doing well in the current situation, and those that are not. Children are often more logical than adults, and in my house this logic is helping them grasp the basics of an investment philosophy. As a result, I have even passed conversations around stock markets off as maths classes!
For young children like my own, helping them learn the basics of managing money is something that will hopefully set them up well in life. There are some great tools to help them do this – we use GoHenry, which provides children with a prepaid card to learn about budgeting. Likewise, encouraging conversations around how they spend virtual money whilst gaming on apps like Roblox can give some really important lessons around how you look after the money you have earned – and how if something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is.
The most important thing is not to underestimate your children. Whether it is the application of a ‘mummy-tax’ when they want chocolate, or applying interest rates – albeit nominal! – if they want to borrow money, teaching our children the basics is something we can all do.
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By GlobalDataThe first step is to identify the best way to approach these topics in a way they will understand. Resources such as Usborne’s Money for Beginners are really helpful to start conversations. There are also several YouTube clips and even TikTok channels dedicated to helping children think about money. I tend to think about what is important to them and use that as a catalyst to start conversations; for example, it could be how they can monetise their love of the gaming app Roblox.
Ending the taboo
Any conversation that leads to a greater awareness around financial discipline and security has to be a positive, no matter what the age – and there are certainly parallels with my experience and that of my clients. There seems to have been a shift in HNW and UHNW families’ willingness to talk about money. Whereas previously it was seen as very un-British to speak about money, the pandemic has meant that a more open conversation is taking place.
Whatever our financial position, we often bury our heads in the sand when it comes to money, and do not always have a clear financial plan, but when we start to put down on paper what is going in and out, we immediately start to feel more in control, thus becoming more engaged. It can be uncomfortable to have that conversation with your family, but we regularly speak with our clients about all manner of sensitive subjects, including putting wills in place, inheritance and protecting loved ones.
Naturally, this is also bringing conversations to the fore around succession planning, legacy, philanthropy and even one’s own mortality. When times are good, it is easy to not have these thoughts at the front of your mind, but in challenging times like these, it highlights how essential it is to talk. And just as with my children, there are plenty of apps and websites that can help with the first steps.
Varying approaches
There is no one way to educate your children about money — what worked for one generation will not necessarily work for the next. Different generations have had to address the different approaches they might take in thinking about money and try to reach a common language to agree on common goals. While many of us grew up with physical pocket money from our parents after completing household chores, today’s young children rarely even touch money: they receive their allowance on an app.
A 2019 study commissioned by RBC Wealth Management and conducted by The Economist Intelligence Unit found that seven in 10 younger affluent respondents think their beliefs about wealth are very different from those of their parents; with a similar percentage, 78%, believing wealth is less easily attained or preserved today. Early, open and continuous dialogue can only help confront obstacles head on and smooth the path ahead.
These talks also allow HNWIs and their families to talk about how they can address non-financial goals such as fighting climate change or supporting social agendas – something that the younger generation is acutely focused on. Indeed, more recent social events have led to an ongoing and overdue debate around what privilege looks like and how society needs to change.
With the summer holidays fast approaching, the struggle to keep children occupied will continue, but without the pressure of the school curriculum. This is an opportunity to continue discussions with children about where money comes from and where its value lies.
As I say to my clients, the initial step to start a conversation is always the hardest.
